August 29th is INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS DAY
Celebrate the unique human being that you are. You have gifts like no one else and this blog is meant to explore how to understand, utilize and enjoy what makes you special.
Sunday, August 23, 2015
Tuesday, July 7, 2015
TAKE ACTION
The
most important step to manifesting anything and everything is ACTION.
Are
you ready for the call to ACTION?
It all starts with a feeling, an inspiration that wakes you up and moves you to think.
Ideas
form … possibilities, what if, the excitement of something new that can change
your life for the better. You are
motivated but it’s that next step that seems to be the hardest.
It’s
all in your head, the plans. You can see
it clearly but unless you ACT upon it, it will remain dormant. It’s scary to take that dream you created and
make it happen because what if it fails?
Or succeeds and it’s out of control crazy. You choose:
success, failure or nothing.
The
majority of success began with failure after failure, to learn from and apply
to the next try.
It’s
rare to succeed the first time. Just
look at your own successes.
If
you review how you got there you’ll see that through experience, knowledge,
wisdom, eliminating what didn’t work, finding a new approach, and a bit of
trust, you got there.
Some
may give up too soon. When we take new
action and step out of our comfort zone, there is that internal aspect in us
that tries to protect and keep us safe, that little voice that says what’s the
use, keep things as they are so you won’t get disappointed or hurt. Keep the status quo. But that only keeps us stagnant, we are just
existing instead of living if we allow this to happen to us. But when we have the courage, inspiration,
support, inner desire that pushes us into action that’s a natural high.
Those of you that are fortunate enough
to have the support of a friend, family member, mentor or community, are truly
blessed.
But
most of us have to be our own cheerleader.
That’s not always easy.
We
have moments of clarity and a knowingness of what to do.
You
work and work and sometimes feel like you are getting nowhere (which may look
like lack of progress but don’t be fooled – every action has a reaction).
It’s
hard to keep going, be self-motivated, feeling like you took two steps forward
and one step back. Fear creeps in as
your rational mind stomps on your dream.
You want to give up.
But
can I make a suggestion?
Just
because you don’t have someone here in the physical world to give you that
needed support – because let me tell you, when you feel supported, no matter
how big or wild your dreams, that support gives you the strength to move
boulders (obstacles?).
So
I say to you, find someone in history who dealt with something similar to what
you are going through. Look into their
life, find a connection, read about their challenges before they
succeeded. If a feeling of kinship
develops, use it as your support.
Not
only will you feel you are not alone in your quest, and this may sound strange
to some,
but
talk to them – in your mind, out loud, in your dreams, in a letter.
Share
your thoughts, doubts, questions as if they were sitting across from you in a
café.
Let
them help you push your inner critic into the background as you sort through,
organize and rearrange your project into the launch position. If it helps, put up a picture of them to
remind you that you are not alone. A
symbolic object of what you want to accomplish is helpful too. Let it bring you back to that original
feeling that started it all.
There are those rare times when your call to action cannot be held back,
bypassing your mind chatter and JUST DO IT.
That feeling of letting go and letting your instincts guide you is
magical. Sometimes your support system
can help get you there.
If
you think about what it is you are trying to manifest and there is this
emotional pull, a deep desire, then don’t stop.
Take the leap of courage and move into ACTION … one step at a time.
Nothing
happens in an instant – it may feel like it when it all comes together, but you
took step after step, big and small to get to that point when everything falls
into place. You
feel as if a miracle has occurred.
And
so it has.
“Just
do it.” ~Nike~
Postscript: As part of the Dare To Be Creative Workshop,
we not only delve into the ACTION aspect of manifesting but also cover Fear,
Resistance, Letting Go and how to prepare for when you actually manifest your
goal along with lots of other areas of the creative process.
“He who begun
is half done. Dare to be wise; begin.”
~Horace~
Thursday, April 2, 2015
APRIL is NATIONAL CARD & LETTER WRITING MONTH
April
is
National Card &
Letter Writing Month
National Card &
Letter Writing Month
I
don’t know anyone who doesn’t love receiving a card with a personal note
included or a handwritten letter. And if it includes a photo or an article
about something you’re interested in, that just adds to the personal connection
being made – a gift within a gift.
Every
once in a while in the middle of cleaning out something, I’ll come across a
stray card someone sent me and when putting it in my “memorabilia” box, I can’t
help but browse through my collection.
Each
card attached with special memories – the memory of receiving and the joy I
feel while reading the message, bringing me close to them once more.
It
always puts a smile on my face.
I
am always grateful when I receive a personal note or card. Once it’s opened and the contents revealed, as
I read the words I am already composing a reply. But more often than not, I put it off to take
care of the necessary day to day deeds that seem to keep me busy night and day
instead of taking the time to do something I truly enjoy.
Then
I remember that I need to practice what I preach.
Those
of you who have taken my Letter Writing Workshop can attest to what that is …
there
is always some way to find time to write. The time it takes to list excuses, can be more
constructive by using that time to write a note. By blocking out that voice in
your head that tells you, there’s too much to do, just sit down and write. You will be amazed how easy it is once you
decided to do it. And it really isn’t as time-consuming as we imagine.
This
month, I have made a vow to catch up on my correspondence both responding and
initiating via pen and paper. The first
week was quite productive. This week I
have a full schedule so I’m keeping it simple so I can keep the momentum going.
Next week I am hoping to discover some new
magical detail to elevate my correspondence skills.
Want
to join me? If you think receiving a handwritten note can
make your day, sending one will certainly give you a lift on multiple levels … the act of writing, the words you choose for
the person it’s meant for, sending it on its way, crossing it off your to-do
list and then the anticipation of a response.
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